Episode 59: How social stalking is hurting more than helping (and what your tendencies say about YOU).
Listen on Spotify | Listen on Apple Podcasts
I Think I Like the Course: Peep the Curriculum
6 Things That Made All the Difference When I was Single
Do you get the urge to stalk? Maybe he's linked his Instagram to his dating profile, or maybe you just know enough to suss out his account (and it happens to be public!) because, well, it's 2023.
Here's the tricky thing though: The information we glean from stalking ends up consisting more of our limiting beliefs, insecurities and projections than it does any actual helpful information about our potential suitor. Even more so, if we've got some blocks to intimacy, then we can actually create false beliefs about people that really act as a way of protecting ourselves from getting too close to them. I know, complex stuff. This episode breaks down these tendencies in simple terms, so you not only learn to navigate the digital space with more ease, but most of all, learn what this pattern signifies around your tendencies in love, attachment, intimacy, etc.
This episode will resonate with anyone who:
Struggles to not go down an internet rabbit hole when they're just getting to know someone
Experiences a lot of anxiety or worry when looking at someone's profile
Uses someone's online presence as a way to create distance between themselves and actually getting to know someone
Work with me One on One
Connect on Instagram
Website
Podcast Music Credit: James Maldonado