I think I like you

with Clara Artschwager

 A counterintuitive approach to dating and relationship in the digital age.

This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself.

What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

 Episodes

 
 
Featured
EP 123 | How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen?
EP 123 | How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen?
EP 122 | We don't necessarily need our partners to come full therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil
EP 122 | We don't necessarily need our partners to come full therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil
EP 121 | Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life
EP 121 | Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life
EP 120 | Part III: How our drive to be good, to be high achievers, to put other people's needs before our own keeps us single or stuck in unhealthy relationships
EP 120 | Part III: How our drive to be good, to be high achievers, to put other people's needs before our own keeps us single or stuck in unhealthy relationships
EP 119 | Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating
EP 119 | Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating
Mini Ep: Why do women who don’t do the work, who are are just as messed up as the rest of us, find great people? Why does it just never happen for me?
Mini Ep: Why do women who don’t do the work, who are are just as messed up as the rest of us, find great people? Why does it just never happen for me?
EP 118 | Part I: How Eldest Daughters/Hero Children Struggle in Relationships
EP 118 | Part I: How Eldest Daughters/Hero Children Struggle in Relationships
EP 117 | How do we know if we're settling? How did I know my husband was the one? Should I do and prenup? A more in this Q+A Episode
EP 117 | How do we know if we're settling? How did I know my husband was the one? Should I do and prenup? A more in this Q+A Episode
EP 116 | My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage
EP 116 | My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage
EP 115 | All Things Money And Partnership
EP 115 | All Things Money And Partnership
EP 114 | On Making, Maintaining and Letting go of Friends in Our 30s + 40s
EP 114 | On Making, Maintaining and Letting go of Friends in Our 30s + 40s
EP 113 | On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind
EP 113 | On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind
EP 112 | The Career Conversation I’m Having With All My 38ish Friends
EP 112 | The Career Conversation I’m Having With All My 38ish Friends
EP 111 | On Resisting Ease in Your Dating Life/Life in General
EP 111 | On Resisting Ease in Your Dating Life/Life in General
EP 110 | You’re Going to Have to Royally F*ck Up In Your Dating Life
EP 110 | You’re Going to Have to Royally F*ck Up In Your Dating Life
EP 109 | How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack
EP 109 | How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack
EP 108 | An Initial Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy
EP 108 | An Initial Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy
EP 107 | On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship
EP 107 | On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship
EP 106 | When You Just Need to Put Everything Down
EP 106 | When You Just Need to Put Everything Down
EP 105 | How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband)
EP 105 | How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband)
EP 104 | When you're not getting any matches on dating apps
EP 104 | When you're not getting any matches on dating apps
EP 103 | What do I do when I like someone and I'm not sure if they like me back?
EP 103 | What do I do when I like someone and I'm not sure if they like me back?
EP 102 | How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you
EP 102 | How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you
EP 101 | A whole new way to foster a secure attachment style, even if you're anxious (p.s. all the secure men are not gone)
EP 101 | A whole new way to foster a secure attachment style, even if you're anxious (p.s. all the secure men are not gone)
EP 100 | My fertility journey is feeling like my dating journey — wildly unpredictable
EP 100 | My fertility journey is feeling like my dating journey — wildly unpredictable
EP 99 | What are the "best" places to meet people?
EP 99 | What are the "best" places to meet people?
EP 98 | What if my job/ travel schedule/lifestyle makes it *impossible* to date?
EP 98 | What if my job/ travel schedule/lifestyle makes it *impossible* to date?
EP 97 | The over-therapized nature of social media + how it’s effing with our expectations of life and relationships
EP 97 | The over-therapized nature of social media + how it’s effing with our expectations of life and relationships
EP 96 | "I don't want to waste time dating" --> How that goal is working against you
EP 96 | "I don't want to waste time dating" --> How that goal is working against you
EP 95 | On feeling like you're in a dating coma and wishing for a jumpstart
EP 95 | On feeling like you're in a dating coma and wishing for a jumpstart

 

About Your Host

I’m a dating and relationships coach and a writer. But mostly I’m a human being messily making her way through life and love.

 

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