I work with SINGLE WOMEN, MARRIED WOMEN, AND WOMEN ON THE HEELS OF breakups & DIVORCE.
Your relationships (or lack thereof) are not by chance. Every one off date, fling, situation-ship or decade long marriage is reflective of a deeper pattern and story. One you can choose to repeat — or change. I work with people to change it.
The Conscious Dater
You find dating generally miserable and unproductive. You desire to meet someone and build a life together, but either can’t bring yourself to date, or find yourself stuck in an endless cycle of first and second dates, with little that goes beyond that. You feel limited by dating apps but don’t really see another way. You watch friends get engaged, have families, build lives, and you often wonder, “Why not me?” You might also wonder, “Is this even what I want?”
You’ve tried traditional methods of therapy, drank the koolaid on some influencer informed dating advice, and while you’ve gained some awareness around your patterns and obstacles, it hasn’t made a significant difference in your pursuit of partnership. You know there’s something you’re missing. Something you’re not seeing. You long for clarity and actual change. And, ultimately, way more agency when it’s comes to the future of your romantic life.
The breakup review
You’ve recently ended a meaningful relationship or marriage. You’re not ready to date just yet and are more focused on gleaning all the lessons and insights from your previous partnership. What led you to this person? Why didn’t it work out for the long term? What was your role in it all? How can you do things differently moving forward?
You might also feel stuck on this last individual and are not sure how you’ll ever move on. You desire both a system and thought partner for thoughtfully reviewing your previous relationship. You want to lean into the anger, pain, sadness and grief, while also knowing you’re growing from it. You’re eager to gain deep clarity on your own patterns, blocks, and the greater role you played in the relationship as a means by which to build something much different moving forward.
The marriage audit
You’ve been married (or in a long term partnership) and things are feeling stale and disconnected. Perhaps the kids have reached an age where you and your husband are out of survival mode. While yours head are slightly above water, you’re now struggling to come back together in any sort of meaningful way (emotionally, sexually, etc.). You feel more like a Director of Operations rather than a wife or individual.
You may have tried couples therapy, and while the process resolved a few things, the relationship still feels…flat. Maybe your husband is helping out more around the house, but you’re still living like roommates. You long to go deeper, both as a means to reconnect to yourself and your partner. This is a program than can be done as an individual, or something I guide a couple through together.
All of my programs include a mix of :
Live coaching sessions
Writing assignments
Content assignments
Ongoing digital communication (voice note and text)
To learn more about that, along with program costs, duration and structure, listen to the audio recording below, and, if helpful, schedule a discovery call. To sign up immediately please email me at clara@ithinkilikeyou.co with your program selection.
what previous clients have said:
“i am in awe at how i look at relationships differently, and how i examine my own desires & needs. I feel so powerful.”
— Female, Midwest, 35
“The amount of clarity and new knowledge that i gained in my time working with her is astonishing.”
— Male, NYC, 30
“i had already gone through much traditional therapy when i came to clara, but she took me to a level i didn’t even know i could be on.”
— Female, NYC, 32
“our work was the catalyst to a wholesale change in my being—thank you.”
— Female, DC, 37
AND ALSO….
I recommend checking out my podcast and newsletter, as both of these resources will give you a window into my philosophies and how I work: