I work with SINGLE WOMEN, MARRIED WOMEN, AND WOMEN ON THE HEALS OF DIVORCE.
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My new relationship is a true testimony to the fact that working with Clara was an invaluable experience for me. I could not recommend it more to anyone who has struggled with dating and relationships. With so much terrible dating advice out there, Clara has such a unique and thoughtful approach that is not to be missed.
— Female, 37, NYC
Whether you’re single and seeking partnership, married and struggling in your relationship, or moving through a separation or divorce, my clients generally fall into the following category:
They’re the eldest daughter or hero child in some way
They played the role of peacekeeper and (emotional) caretaker in their family growing up
Professionally they’ve done a lot. Whether they love the work or it feels right to them is a whole other story, but they’re no stranger to hard work and carrying everything for themselves.
They’ve done a fair amount of traditional therapy and have awareness of their “issues,” but they’re unsure how to map that to their relationship struggles
They hunger for deep connection, affection, warmth. To be literally and figuratively held. They’re exhausted by their hyper-independent and hyper-vigilant ways.
They’ve read the books, they’ve listened to the podcasts, maybe they’ve “optimized” their profiles… but nothing has made a difference.
How We Work Together
My program is a combination of:
Live sessions
Assigned writing
Assigned content
Digital support
I start each client with a three month container, after which point you can decide to continue or conclude our time together.
The work is very individualized, but generally speaking, the work is designed to:
Get to the core of your intimacy patterns and relationship obstacles.
This will give us a crystal clear understanding of your dating and relationship history —basically why things have shaken out the way they have and where to go from here.
From there I’ll construct tailored steps (i.e. changes to your everyday behavior) that are specifically designed to foster the relationship you will need to create with yourself in order to move towards the relationship you want with another.
We touch all facets of life, from work to family, body, friendship, home and your everyday. This is not to kick up more issues but rather unearth how all you’re confronting is intimately connected. This ultimately gives you more agency to create change.
QUESTIONS?
Wondering what it’s like to work with me? Have questions about what each container is like? Schedule a discovery call and we’ll discuss.
I also recommend checking out my podcast and newsletter, as both of these resources will give you a real window into my philosophies and how I work:
Looking for something other than 1:1 support?
Take an Online Course
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How to Date Online
A course designed to make dating apps less miserable and show you no nonsense ways to approach them and actually meet people.
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How to Meet People in Person
A course designed to weave meeting people in person into your day to day, no matter where you lived, or how utterly terrified you feel to do it.
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How to Take a Dating Break
It’s a four-week period to actively NOT date so you can devote your time and energy to understanding the bigger picture of your romantic patterns.
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