EP 119 | Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating
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We're back with part II of our eldest daughter/hero child series, and the impact this has on our dating and romantic lives. If you haven't yet listened to episode 118, I highly recommend going back and doing so before digging into this one.
In this week's episode I'm discussing:
Why the very traits of being the helpful, accommodating, rule following, good girl, who always did well in school, can also be the very thing/things that hold us back from deep connection and fulfilling partnership
How our conscious and subconscious brains work here — how we can consciously desire a relationships but subconsciously actually fear one, actually not want one
How our attachment patterns show up within all of this
How remaining single can feel really, really safe
How the fear of losing ourselves can cause us to push away healthy relationships, or attract people we can't get that close to
Why it's so difficult to operate authentically and express our wants and needs — but how we actually go about doing it
How remaining chronically single or being resistant to dating is often a means of protection
Links mentioned in this episode:
Unf*ck Your Brain Prenup Podcast Episode
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