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Episode 38: If you moved to another place, would is be easier to meet someone?
Have you ever thought or wondered, "If I lived <insert dream location> it would be so much easier to meet someone"? This is a conversation and conundrum I cross with most clients. And it's one I, too, struggled with. I was fixated on the idea I had to live in New York City to meet someone — that I'd never meet someone upstate. Lo and behold, I met my husband upstate. In this quick episode I'm walking through how to unearth the location that best serves you, best aligns with your unique needs as a human, which in turn translates to meeting someone most aligned with your life.
Episode 36: A quick thought on ghosting (i.e. what do when someone does it)
A client recently informed me of something she did when a guy ghosted her after a first date and I had to share it here. I thought the tactic was so brilliant, and really helpful in processing those feelings of frustration and disappointment.
Episode 35: The holidays are hard as sh*t. Let's talk about that.
On the heels of my Thanksgiving holiday with family, which was equal parts blissful and challenging, I wanted to share how distinctly different those two sides can be. How we can have holidays and familial experiences that from the outside looking in appear so joyful, but from the depths of our interior, can paint quite a different experience.
Episode 34: On dating intuitively (but for real).
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 33: How Googling when to text back or polling our friends around whether or not we should entertain a second date is doing more harm than good.
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 32: Jealousy towards ex-partners, anxious attachment style, the core issue around common dating advice, and more.
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 31: On meeting in your 30s vs your 20s. Is it *that* different?
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 30: The breakup that isn't a breakup. When they just ghost.
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 29: On the tendency to mute ourselves when we're around someone we like.
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 28: On being the martyr in my own relationship.
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 27: What does your gut imbalance have to do with the state of your relationships?
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 26: What if he says he's not sure about kids?
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 25: On falling in love with women when you've historically only been with men.
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.
Episode 24: It’s comfortable being single. is dating worth disrupting my life?
A play by play of the year and half leading up to meeting my now fiancée. Admittedly, I don't like framing at that way, as if it was an awful experience and now I'm free! Truth be told, I'm just on another journey. One that's testing me, challenging me and stretching me in new ways, but still very much to the tune of human evolution.