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EP 80 | On not getting asked to the dance + how it's showing up in your love life now

In today's emotionally charged episode, we dive deep into the resonant echoes of adolescence and how the identities we form during those tender years continue to influence our dating and relationship journeys. Inspired by the poignant reflections prompted by "The Summer I Turned Pretty," I explore the lasting impact of not feeling like the "pretty girl" and the universal struggles many face in their formative years.

Join me as we unpack:

Formation of Identity: How the identities we construct during adolescence, particularly regarding our desirability and self-worth, can shape our dating and relationship patterns.

The Lingering Effect: Understanding the ways in which these early narratives continue to play out, manifesting as challenges such as no matches, difficulty connecting deeply, dating anxiety, and the fear of never finding someone.

Love and Praise as Threats: Exploring why receiving love and praise can feel uncomfortable when it contradicts the narratives we've internalized about ourselves.

Invisible Barriers: How these deeply ingrained beliefs act as invisible barriers, hindering our ability to attract the kind of connection we truly desire.

Reversing Self-Perception: Practical insights on reversing negative self-perception and cultivating comfort, familiarity, and safety in accepting love, adoration, and praise.

Whether you're navigating the dating scene or in a long-term relationship, this episode offers valuable insights into the roots of our romantic struggles and practical strategies for rewriting our narratives. Join me on this journey of self-discovery and transformation as we unravel the threads of adolescent identities and pave the way for more fulfilling connections.

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EP 78 | It’s not your fault. It’s near impossible to leave a situation-ship.

In today's thought-provoking episode, we delve into the timeless phenomenon of "situationships" — relationships where our desires clash with reality, a struggle not confined to modern times. While contemporary culture often advises a straightforward "letting go," the truth is far more intricate.

Join me as I break down:

The Drivers of Situationships: Unpacking our obsession or attachment to specific individuals that fuel the creation of these complex emotional entanglements.

The Challenge of Letting Go: Exploring why situationships are so challenging to release, delving into the layers of emotions and romantic blueprints embedded in our choices.

The Cycle of Returning: Investigating the perpetual pattern of declaring "I'm done!" only to find ourselves drawn back into the same situations, and the deeper insights these cycles hold.

Wisdom Within Situationships: Recognizing the profound wisdom about ourselves, our desires, and the wounds we seek to fill that can be gleaned from these experiences.

Learning for Singles and Couples: Discussing how both single individuals and those in long-term relationships can extract valuable lessons from understanding past situationships, aiding in the healing and mitigation of unhealthy patterns in love.

And, introducing a new segment: "Work with me on your career transition."

Tune in for a nuanced exploration of the intricate web of desires, attachments, and lessons that situationships bring, offering insights for personal growth and healthier relationships.

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EP 77 | On stepping into marriage and motherhood in your 40s

In today's enlightening episode, join me as I have a deep conversation with Kerri Keaton, a corporate executive turned human design specialist, a devoted mother, a thought leader, and a change maker. Kerri's unique journey is a testament to the possibilities that exist beyond societal norms, as she entered into marriage at 41 and embraced motherhood at 45. Her story is a beacon of hope for the many women in their late 30s and 40s who yearn for the experiences of partnership and parenthood, but rarely see these paths modeled beyond their mid-30s.

In this episode, we explore:

Kerri's Relationship History: Discover what led Kerri to a fulfilling and deeply aligned marriage, even after crossing the age of 40.

The 20+ Year Desire for Children: Learn about Kerri's unwavering desire for children and the transformative journey she embarked on to fulfill this dream.

Divine Timing: Gain insights into how Kerri now perceives the divine timing of her journey into motherhood, offering inspiration to those who may be on a similar path.

The Power of Intention: Delve into Kerri's experiences with dating and how she successfully called her husband into her life through intention and alignment.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking wisdom, inspiration, and a fresh perspective on love, family, and the pursuit of one's deepest desires. Join us as we navigate the remarkable journey of embracing marriage and motherhood in your 40s.

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ep 76| Most dating advice is doing a bang up job of making us feel like we're not doing enough

This episode is addressing the limitations and potential pitfalls of dating advice while also offering a more holistic approach to addressing the foundational obstacles in the pursuit of a healthy partnership. This is an important and relatable topic for many individuals navigating the world of dating and relationships. By highlighting the need to go beyond surface-level advice and addressing core issues, you're providing valuable insights for your audience. It's always beneficial to offer a balanced perspective and practical solutions. Good luck with your episode!

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Ep 75: My husband and I chat about our childhoods, how those experiences show up in our marriage now, and how we navigate the differences

Join a deeply insightful and intimate episode of "I Think I Like You" featuring a candid conversation between the host and her husband, James. Explore the crucial importance of understanding each other's varied backgrounds and personal histories within a relationship. Delve into how childhood experiences manifest emotionally, navigating triggers, shared practices that enhance the relationship, the unique role of anger, conflict resolution, and ongoing navigation of differences. Gain valuable insights into building a strong, introspective, and harmonious partnership. Tune in now for this heartfelt and eye-opening conversation!

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Ep 74: When you *know* there's something standing in the way of your growth but you can't put your finger on it

Join an enlightening episode of "I Think I Like You" as we dive into the profound journey of healing and personal evolution. Discover how different modalities, including psychedelics, fit together within the larger frame of self-improvement. Explore the challenges of seeking a single solution and the evolving nature of the healing journey. Whether you're curious about alternative therapies, contemplating psychedelics, or simply feeling stifled in life, this episode offers valuable insights and relatable experiences. Tune in now to gain a deeper understanding of your own healing path and the puzzle pieces of growth!

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Ep 73: Kris Wylder on Navigating Relationships + Motherhood Not Looking Like What You Thought It Would

Join a candid and heartfelt episode of I Think I Like as we catch up with Kris, a fellow food blogger turned friend over a decade of connection. Explore Kris's journey through relationships, career changes, motherhood, and embracing the unexpected turns her life has taken. Delve into real talk about the challenges of modern life and how to navigate through them with grace and authenticity. If you're struggling with career shifts, embodying multiple roles, or seeking relatable discussions about the realities of motherhood, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now for insightful perspectives and inspiring moments!

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Ep 72: 4 Common Pitfalls in Dating Where I See People Getting Stuck

Join this insightful episode of "I Think I Like" as we explore the four common pitfalls that block growth and change in relationships and various areas of life. Discover the significance of acknowledging pain, examining the nature of your dating life instead of obsessing over how to meet someone, recognizing cues surrounding obstacles, and avoiding the misconception that dating operates in a vacuum. If you've been stuck in a dating pattern and seeking meaningful change, this episode sheds light on areas to focus on. Tune in now for valuable insights and potential for transformative shifts!

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Ep 71: The unique struggles overachievers face in dating + relationships

Join an eye-opening and juicy episode of I Think I Like, as we delve into the patterns and narratives of overachievers and how it may hinder their ability to find fulfilling relationships. Discover how hyper-independence and finding worth in work can create obstacles to meeting emotionally available partners. Explore the nature of our nervous system and its role in repelling what we truly desire. This episode is perfect for anyone who identifies as an overachiever, struggles to find a compatible relationship, or feels like they are always giving more in their relationships. Don't miss out on this insightful conversation! Tune in now for valuable revelations and self-discovery.

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Ep 70 : The practice that is *actually* helping w/ my sex life (and so much more) w/ Ishtara Founder, Tracy Harward

In this intimate and transformative episode of "I Think I Like You" join an insightful conversation with Ishtara, the founder of a powerful practice that has revolutionized the host's sexual experience and healing journey. Discover the profound impact of Ishtara's work on embracing pleasure and freedom within the body. Learn about her inspiring story and the origins of the practice, as the host shares her own personal journey with healing through Ishtara's transformative methods. Tune in now for an empowering exploration of sexual healing and personal growth.

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Ep 69 : Nancy Levin drops the knowledge on relationships for overachievers

Tune in to this captivating episode of "I Think I Like” featuring an enlightening conversation with author and master life coach Nancy Levin. Discover powerful insights on codependency, setting boundaries, and the connection between self-worth and achievement. Explore the transformative journey of self-discovery through Nancy's personal experience, including the lessons learned from her own affair and the profound impact of returning to her art and poetry. Gain valuable wisdom and inspiration to create positive change in your own life. Don't miss out on this empowering episode!

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Episode 68: A dating Q+A w/ Amy Nobile

Join an engaging episode of I Think I Like You, featuring a listener Q+A session with Amy Nobile, founder of Love, Amy. Explore insightful perspectives on manifesting soulful love, overcoming shame around not being in a long-term relationship, moving past the fear of dating and getting hurt, putting oneself out there after financial hardship or debt, and navigating dating after a difficult bout of depression or anxiety. Gain valuable advice and practical strategies to empower your dating journey and create fulfilling connections. Tune in now for an enriching conversation with expert insights.

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Episode 67: Everyone is IN it and here's the deal

In this episode of "I Think I Like You" explore the profound consistencies in relationships and personal evolution that have emerged in recent months. Discover the transformative themes of breaking free from conditioning, embracing the feminine, and realizing the need for change in patterns and ways of living that no longer serve us. Experience the liberating energy of embracing a "no going back" mindset and the shift towards inconveniences in love stories. Join the conversation and feel the stress melt away as you gain insights and inspiration for your own journey. Tune in now for a truly transformative experience!

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Episode 66: 3 clients who have found flow in their dating lives

Join this episode of I Think I Like You, as we explore three consistent patterns and habits that lead to a flow in the dating life. Discover how these behaviors extend beyond dating and can transform your overall life, providing clarity, resilience, and direction. If you're tired of the dating process and seeking ways to meet compatible people and create meaningful connections, this episode offers valuable insights. Additionally, gain a deeper understanding of what it's like to work with the host privately. Tune in now for illuminating perspectives and actionable strategies.

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Episode 65: Should I settle for this? How do I know?

In this episode of I Think I Like You, gain valuable insights into navigating the dating world and choosing the right partner for you. Discover why seeking external rules and directions can lead to anxiety and confusion, and learn how to quiet the mental chatter by embracing the inside job of understanding your own needs and desires. Find clarity and confidence in making dating decisions and create more fulfilling connections. Don't miss out on our online course for further valuable content. Tune in now!

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