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Episode 49: We all just want to meet the one person that will deliver us from our shame and pain.

We all just want the whole *thing*— whether the thing is a person or a house or a job or a something to work out. To happen. To just....be there. And so we load ourself up with how tos and programs, hoping to skirt the timeline of life in some fashion. But it's the very timeline itself that helps us evolve into the person who will be the partner or the owner or the placeholder of a new position.

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I wish I never told him I loved him.

We've all had those relationships where we look back and think, "How did I let that happen? How did I let it get that far?" Driven by ego and societal pressures, it's easy to fall into the trappings of a relationship that on the surface seems right, but deep down isn't a fit. This post explores how one copes.

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Episode 38: If you moved to another place, would is be easier to meet someone?

Have you ever thought or wondered, "If I lived <insert dream location> it would be so much easier to meet someone"? This is a conversation and conundrum I cross with most clients. And it's one I, too, struggled with. I was fixated on the idea I had to live in New York City to meet someone — that I'd never meet someone upstate. Lo and behold, I met my husband upstate. In this quick episode I'm walking through how to unearth the location that best serves you, best aligns with your unique needs as a human, which in turn translates to meeting someone most aligned with your life.

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